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Maybe something came up at work and you just can't make it. Maybe you're not feeling well, or maybe you're just not feeling it anymore. Regardless of the reason for wanting to back out of plans, it's important to give your date a head's up. Although cancelling a date over text can seem intimidating, it doesn't have to be. According to experts, it's all about being honest. Regardless, my general rule of thumb when cancelling a date with someone is the Golden Rule — treat someone as you would like them to treat you.

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Cancelling a date can be uncomfortable. There are way too many fish in the sea to spend your valuable time chasing a knockoff Nemo.

You can even offer up an alternative time to meet up. Of course, every rule has an exception.

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More like this. Are you free tomorrow night instead? Although you may think you're doing someone a favor by keesp them an open ended, "I'll let you know when I'm free again," you're not. Photo credit: Shutterstock "Sorry but I have to cancel. Photo credit: Shutterstock "I really enjoy spending time with you, but I don't want to give you the wrong idea. But if your gut is telling you that someone is bad news, listen to that.

According to Susan WinterNYC relationship expert, love coach, and author of Breakup Triage: The Cure for Heartachethe uncomfortable truth is that flaking is usually a someone might not consider you a priority.

But that's it. As disappointing as it may see that message pop up on your screen, knowing how to respond when your date cancels depends on several factors — the most important one being whether or not you still want to see them. But if you're in the situation of not being ready to dateit's Tetxing to say that.

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According to Strah, we all present our best selves in the beginning, so it can take a few dates or months to really get to know someone. Extreme situations can warrant rescheduling, but be sure to ask yourself if this is actually one of those very rare circumstances. Maybe something came up at work and you just can't make it. By Tayi Sanusi November 13, In a perfect world, dates flaking last minute would be as rare as UFO sightings — you'd hear about it happening every once in a while, but giro wouldn't actually happen often enough to be a legitimate concern.

Probably not recently, if ever. Can't make it! Regardless, my general rule of thumb when cancelling a date with someone is the Golden Rule — treat someone as you would like them to treat you. Whether you're interested in rescheduling or not, ieeps deserves to know the truth.

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So here's how you can cancel a date over text, based on the situation you're in. You don't have to go into the details if you don't want flaies. Unless someone has done something really offensive to you, Strah says it's important to include at least these three things in your cancellation text: be gracious, be clear about your intentions, and wish them well.

I really enjoyed getting to know you and you're great. Don't push for a friendship either.

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I'd leeps to hang out as friends if you're interested. According to experts, it's all about being honest. At the end of the day, you deserve to be that person who someone can texitng wait to see. When you want to go out with someone but you can't due to work or the flu, keep it simple and just be honest about it. No matter which way you slice it, flaking on plans can be really disappointing and disrespectful.

Are We Still On? Dating in the Time of Flakes.

True emergencies are few and far between, and unless your date has a fantastic, fool-proof excuse, "There's only one reason for flaking on a date — you're not important to your date," explains Winter. Ultimately, only you can decide whether they're worthy of a second chance based on the exact circumstances. Leave it open enough so they can decide if they're OK with hanging out as just friends. But when it comes to dating, communication and honesty are important.

If this is the case, Strah says it's important to be clear about your intentions. You deserve to be given plenty of notice if a date needs to reschedule your plans.

Maybe you're not feeling well, or maybe you're just tedting feeling it anymore. Photo credit: Shutterstock "Hey, I'm so sorry, but something came up tonight and I can't get out of it. I wish you all the best.

If they don't pick up the ball after that generous offer, keep walking. And under no circumstances, should you ever show up to a date only to discover that someone can't make it because they're too tired, their dog must have "hid" their keys, their friends are in town, they're suddenly feeling overwhelmed, or they just "forgot.

But if you have to do tetxing over text, make sure to use "I" statements. This offense is not repeatable with the same excuse. You deserve to feel important enough that someone is willing to reschedule other obligations to make time for you. Regardless of the reason for wanting to back out of plans, it's important to give your date a head's yirl.

"she flakedbut now she can't stop calling me! here's my trick"

I really want to see you. Although you're probably hoping for a legitimate reason to give them the benefit of the doubt — after all, what if it was an emergency?!

If that's the case, you should be honest about it as soon as you realize it.